October is not only Mental Health Month but also a time dedicated to suicide awareness and prevention.

In this critical period, it’s crucial to discuss the often-overlooked aspects of men’s mental health, particularly the emotions of anger, disgust, and contempt.

These emotions play a significant role in the complex landscape of men’s mental health and contribute to the higher suicide rates among men. This article explores the connection between anger, disgust, contempt, and men’s mental health, emphasizing the importance of awareness, support, and inclusion of women in this conversation.

The Unspoken Emotions: Anger, Disgust, and Contempt

Society often expects men to be strong, stoic, and in control of their emotions. This societal pressure can lead to the suppression of feelings, including anger, disgust, and contempt. Anger, a powerful and sometimes overwhelming emotion, is a common response to stress and adversity.

Disgust and contempt, while less frequently discussed, can arise from feelings of disappointment, judgment, or disdain towards oneself or others. When these emotions are suppressed or mishandled, they can contribute to mental health challenges, including depression, anxiety, and, tragically, suicidal thoughts.

The Connection to Suicide in Men

Men are more likely than women to die by suicide, and these emotions play a role in this alarming statistic. The reluctance to express vulnerability and seek help can lead to a build-up of anger, disgust, and contempt, eventually culminating in despair.

Men may find it difficult to articulate their emotional struggles, leading to isolation and a sense of hopelessness that can tragically result in suicide.

Including Women in the Conversation

Women have a pivotal role in promoting men’s mental health during Mental Health Month and beyond. As partners, friends, family members, and colleagues, women can create a safe space for men to express their emotions without judgment.

Encouraging open and honest conversations about anger, disgust, and contempt is crucial. It’s essential to recognize that these emotions are not weaknesses but natural responses to life’s challenges.

Preventing Suicide: Awareness and Support

Suicide awareness and prevention must be a collective effort. It’s imperative to break the stigma surrounding men’s mental health and foster an environment where men feel comfortable seeking help.

Mental health resources and support systems should be readily accessible and destigmatized. Women can play a critical role in encouraging the men in their lives to seek professional assistance when needed, and society as a whole must support mental health initiatives.


Mental Health Month, suicide awareness, and prevention are all opportunities to shed light on the emotional struggles faced by men, including their experiences with anger, disgust, and contempt. As we observe these important events in October, let’s remember that mental health knows no gender.

By understanding and addressing the emotional complexities that men encounter, and by including women in the conversation, we can work together to promote better mental health for all and reduce the devastating impact of suicide in our communities. It’s time to navigate the storm of emotions, break down the barriers, and support each other on the path to well-being.

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